Did you ever actually peek inside your soul and asked yourself the same question? Who you are right now, are you the best version of yourself?
If you don’t know the answer or if the answer is a no, then it is time to start working towards becoming the best version of who you are.
You need to recognize the factors that are stopping you from becoming the best.
You need to find out what’s lacking within you, try finding things that complete you.
When you are yourself, you cannot stop happiness from coming to you.
There might be a lot of things that might be happening in your life right now, some things might be consuming all your energy for no valuable reason and you have to find and eliminate those things that are stopping you from becoming better.
There might be certain people in your life who are constantly making you doubt your potential, get rid of such people.
People who don’t value you or who take you for granted, often end up taking a huge place in your head because on one hand, you are constantly giving your best to stay with those people and they simply do not seem to make an effort and such people don’t do any good by staying in your life.
Imagine the best version of yourself, imagine where and who you want to be, think about people whom you aspire to be like.
Work every single day to become better than who you were yesterday.
It is quite difficult to actually remind yourself to do better because you have other things that take your time.
So, the easiest way to actually become the best version is to simply do things that need to be done.
If each day you find yourself unable to do something because you fear doing it or because you feel lazy, just convince yourself to do that damn thing.
If it is important, it needs to be done at any cost.
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Wherever you go, at whatever stage you are in life, be the best possible version of who you are.
Feeling low is normal, having bad days is normal, but certain bad days teach us a lot in life and we need to focus on those lessons that life is trying to teach us.
Being a better version of yourself means becoming truly yourself, a better self.
Being yourself is not easy and sometimes we alter our thoughts and our being in order to fit in.
As long as you allow yourself to adapt to make others feel happy or comfortable around you, you are never going to actually make an impact on others.
Your best version is the one that is happy, content with life, in love with his/her dreams, confident in who he/she is.
Find yourself, get inspired by people around you for good, inspire people that are around you.
I think that being confident is the first step to be a better version of yourself because if you are confident with who you are if you have accepted your true self, you cannot let anyone bring you down.
Loving yourself is the first step and after that, you keep on growing, there is no coming back.
Bring out the best in people around you, appreciate them for who they are, motivate them to become better.
You know how hard it is to actually stay yourself in the world that is constantly trying to bring you down.
It is really easy to change people, you can constantly criticize them and make them feel shameful for who they are, but it is really difficult to simply accept people for who they are.
You can change or influence people for their betterment but if you criticize someone only because you don’t like them or you don’t like what they do, it is only going to push them away from you and break them from the inside.
It is really important to make others feel valued because just like you, they too have feelings and they too might be working hard to find their true identity.
It is not your responsibility to make others happy by changing yourself, you simply don’t have to change yourself for anyone.
Only you know who you truly want to become and therefore others should not have the power to choose what you become.
Find your values, your beliefs, find what actually makes you “you”.
Then have the courage to grow better in that direction.
To get the best out of life you need to first discover the best within you.
It all starts with you and it all ends with you.
It is time to finally give yourself some importance and start living for yourself.
Start paying attention to all those things that actually matter, start working towards bettering yourself.
“Why fit in when you were born to stand out.”
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